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Friday, November 29, 2013

I Love My Life...

As I was headed down the road to take the kids to the Fantasy of Lights Parade, it hit me like a ton of bricks that we're in a really unique situation right now.  After years of being away from "home" and raising our kids with our own traditions (which I love), we are now in a place where we can also share with them the traditions we had growing up.  Who gets to do that?  Who gets the best of both worlds?  Apparently we do, and this has me feeling pretty blessed!

The Fantasy of Lights Parade is a special thing around our house, particularly because it was the first date Phil and I ever went on, some 19 years ago!  I met Phil's whole family that night.  We got stuck in traffic and finally detoured to Silverman's for Hot Chocolate, and I thought my Nana (who was waiting for me at home) was going to kill me for being so late!

Some things have changed over the years, 
but not how much I love
being out in the cold, at a parade, with this guy:

Over the years, we have made it out to the parade a handful of times.  We took Seth at 2 months old.  I took the kids in 2005, when I was working overnights at Target and commuting 2 1/2 hours.  You know, just crazy stuff like that!  But this year was the first time our whole family made it there together.  Well, OK...  let's be real.  Nothing is ever easy, and Phil had to work late, so we didn't really arrive together, but we did find each other...

Ready to Walk Downtown:


Now, I'm relatively good at scoping out good parade watching spots, so we managed to squeeze in between a couple of blankets that had surely been set out hours ahead of time, and the kids got a prime spot on the curb.  I'm also sort of... shall we say... thrify, but it my excitement to get downtown early, I forgot to feed the kids.  This resulted in an $18.00 trip to a hot dog vendor.  I probably should have thought this through a little bit better, because I left Seth, Grace, Caleb, and Miah to guard our spot and then Ian and I had to figure out how to carry 6 hot dogs and 6 lidless cups of hot chocolate between the two of us.  Let's just say a whole lot of hot dogs were stuffed in Ian's coat pockets, and we might have had a little bit of a spill...

My Little Hot Dog Man:

In the end, Grandma, Grandpa, and Daddy did find us.  Funny little aside, Grandma was calling us on her cell phone and didn't realize that she was standing, literally, right behind us...

 Oh!  There They Are:

And the parade was great!

Some of the Floats:
 

I thought the School Bus that had impaled
Santa's reindeer team was a little disturbing...
Oh, wait...  Maybe it's supposed to be a sleigh...


Someone in our family was super excited to see Santa:

 Uh...  It might not be who you think:

I think maybe the funniest part of the night was when Miah was doing the royalty wave at all of the people on the floats!  She also wanted to ride the horses and was very upset about being in her stroller.  When we got home and I was getting her to bed, later, she said, "I thought this was my parade!"  Oh, Queen Miah...


The walk back was an eventful one, since Grandma decided we should stroll through the streets, where the horses had just been... and the flat tires on the stroller didn't really help, either, but what is life without a little bit of comic relief?

Some more hot chocolate and pie at Grandma and Grandpa's house, and it was time to head home.

Good stuff.  Good life.  Good night!

L.

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Unashamed...

... I am a Black Friday shopper.

As a previous small town, small business owner, I completely understand the desire to shop locally and support my neighbors.  As a very materialistic person who has been intentionally working my way toward a more minimalistic lifestyle, for years, I completely understand the importance of emphasizing the real meaning of Christmas... ya know, the birth of our Savior... over the number of packages crammed under the tree.  But here's the truth.  I like buying things for people, I believe in being a good steward of my resources, and I don't have an exorbitant amount of cash.  So, for years, I have shopped on Black Friday.
  
What I was never going to do was shopping on Thanksgiving.  And yet, when dinner had been consumed, and the game had finished up, and the kids were happily laying around Grandma and Grandpa's living room in pie induced semi-comatose bliss, it occurred to me that Phil and I could, indeed, slip away for a couple of hours, alone, and snag some deals.  And so we did.

It should be abundantly clear
that I love this more than Phil does,
but he's such a trooper, and we do have fun together:
 

So we walked into Wal-Mart for three items.  21 minutes after the clock struck 6:00, I was sitting in the van, in the parking lot, with two of them.  Phil had a little bit more trouble getting to the check-out lanes, so it took him about 40 minutes total.  It was the easiest holiday shopping trip ever as far as I'm concerned, and I even got to direct some brand new Black Friday shoppers and help them to get the items they were after.  Yeah, that might have been the control freak in me coming out, but it is kind of fun when you're walking to the end of the check out line and people are thanking you as you go past...

L.

PS  We also did a lot of on-line shopping, so our list had dwindled, considerably, before we ever left the house.  I would imagine it would have been a bit more hectic if we were vying for electronics, which we have done in the past...

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Cooking With Friends...

If you know me, you know that I like to entertain... and I love to cook...

So...  It was super exciting to have Chuck and Allie over for dinner, tonight!  I made my standard favorite, chicken parmesan, with spaghetti, homemade garlic cheese bread, mozzarella sticks, brownie sundaes, and I even picked up a recipe for Italian sodas (which are pretty much going to be a staple at our house from now on, see below).  I think I missed having an oven, even though I was pretty sure I could survive without one.  Thank goodness for good sales and even for delivery guys who recognize that a dented oven drawer is a good reason for a nice discount!


At any rate, the food was good, but hanging out with friends is always great, even if the food stinks (please feel free to ask Russ and Melissa about this, since they got to come over for dinner pre-new stove and had to endure burned scrambled eggs made in a wok.  I promise, I'll have them over for Italian soon).

Looking forward to lots of evenings with Chuck and Allie, sharing old stories and new ones, alike.  And, ya know, it was a nice perk that Allie made herself right at home in our kitchen, because when club soda is spraying in every direction and sprinkles are being liberally spilled on the floor, you know it was a good night!

Phil and Chuck - 
Friends since, pretty much forever:
L.

Sunday, November 24, 2013

One of the Perks...

... of living close to family is that moms are usually pretty adamant about doing your dishes!


Seriously, though, it was great to have my parents over, this afternoon!  They brought us dinner and finally got to see where we're living, and the kids had a lot of fun with them, as always!

I'm starting to get used to seeing Miah at the sink.  Grace is a super helpful child in many, many ways around the house, but dishes have never really been her thing.  If I work this out right, I'm going to have a dishwasher, after all, though!

L.

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Michigan Invitational, 2013...

I really hate it when parents expect their kids to follow in their footsteps, or worse yet, live vicariously through their children.  So, I have no earthly idea why I sat down and told my kids the story about how I was first place at the Kalamazoo Quiz in 1996.  Maybe I did this because it's the one time in my years of quizzing that I took first place, individually, at an invitational quiz.  I can't say it was my absolute best moment, but it ranked right up there.

At any rate, I quizmastered in K-Zoo, today, and, per normal, I didn't see a whole lot of my kids during the preliminary rounds, because that's just the way it goes.  They did actually quiz one round in my room, and as much as I love to have them in my room, because I love to see them quiz; it is always a little nerve wracking, because I am a super fair, unbiased quizmaster when I'm behind that table, and it's awful when things happen like Grace taking her first error of the day, in my room, marring her perfect day!

At the end of the prelims, I knew that Seth would place no lower than 7th and that Grace was either 1st or 2nd on the day.  But Grace is such an unassuming kid, she hadn't put any of this together.

And so, watching the individual awards was a lot of fun!  As it turned out, Seth took 5th place, the highest he has placed at an invitational, to date, and then fourth place was announced... and third... and second...  And at this point, Grace turns to me and asks, "I didn't place?"  I'm getting excited, because I know she's first, but at the same time, I'm trying not to laugh out loud at her, because she should realize this, as well!  All I could get out was, "Get ready..." and then her name is called, and I mean the girl is absolutely floored!  

What I did not expect was for her to burst into tears.  And what I really did not expect was for her to come to me later to tell me that the reason she was so happy was that she was thinking about how I had been first place at this quiz, so she wanted to be, as well.

Now, let's not have any misunderstanding.  Grace is already a better quizzer than I ever was.  It doesn't do her a whole lot of good to want to be a quizzer like me at this point.  But there was something about this moment that still felt really good, as a mom.  It's the kind of thing that makes me want to be a better mom... and a better person... because more than anything I want my children to follow Jesus, but if they're going to follow me, I had better be following Him to the very best of my ability...

Well, that's all pretty loaded...  How about some result pics...     

Check out those good looking bookends on the front row:

After an incredible performance
and only one loss on the day,
Durand finished 5th place:

Ahem... Why do we let this guy drive?
L.

PS  Last night I found Caleb sobbing, because he had decided to spend the day with Grandma and thought it was too late to change his mind and come to the quiz.  Of course, we took him with us.  Caleb joined us for the quiz and followed the team around, today, keeping track of all kinds of stats.  He just cannot wait to be a teen quizzer in two more years...  Watch out world...

Friday, November 22, 2013

Catching Fire, A Review...


Well, this one is complicated in all kinds of ways.  To be completely honest, I'm not sure I can even begin to make an unbiased review, but I'm going to try...

To begin with, the plugged in review echoed a lot of my own sentiments on this one.  If you are looking for a list of moral issues with the film, this is a pretty good place to start.  There is not much I can add to the discussion regarding black and white, this is here and that isn't, content:


But herein lies the problem.  This story has long since taken on a life of its own, for me.  And yet, I have been accused of over thinking things a time or two...

In terms of strictly entertainment value, I would have to say, "skip this film".  In fact, it was pretty disturbing to me as the clock struck midnight... and 1:00... and 2:00... and as I continued to process things past 3:00... and 4:00... to think of the reactions I observed in the theater around me. 

Profanity is always unnecessary.  Always.  It is even more unnecessary when there is one misuse of the word, "Hell" in the entire literary trilogy.  Nothing else.  I cannot quite wrap my mind around why the screenwriters felt that it was a good idea to sprinkle the profane here and there, throughout the film.  I struggled with the same thing in regard to The Hunger Games.  And my mind is blown as to why God's name is ever uttered in this dystopian society where there is no knowledge of God, at all.  None.  Even if I was someone who didn't care much about these things, it would be a disconnect for me.  But apparently most everyone else in the world doesn't share this sentiment, because, I kid you not, many people laughed out loud at most of the uses of profanity.  Connecting with the story, I found this phenomenon to be quite disturbing, as the profanities were slipped in at some of the most serious times - during Peeta's gift to the families of the dead tributes of district 11, Haymitch uses "s***", and everyone laughs.  When we should be learning of the terrible mistreatment of victors, by the Capitol, and our hearts should be softening toward Johanna, there's a "d***", and everyone laughs.  At the end of the film, when Katniss, in angst, should be running her fingernails down Haymitch's face and deeply mourning the (at least temporary) loss of Peeta, she instead is calling Haymitch a "son of a b****", and everybody laughs.  How is this stuff funny?  Even if I thought that profanity was funny (which I don't), I don't see how I could have found these situations humorous in any way.  But, then again, when the story isn't fully developed, maybe people don't really get it.

I am almost positive the teenage girls sitting behind me didn't even know there was a story.  They just squealed every time Peeta and Gale made appearances.  That got old real fast.

The violence in Catching Fire struck me as less intense and disturbing than that of The Hunger Games.  In and of itself, this should be a red flag.  I understand that the intent was to keep the gore minimal enough to avoid an R rating, but I think we have to remember that this story is supposed to be horrible.  No one should walk away feeling like they have just experienced an enjoyable movie.  The point is that this is horrific.  When the credits roll, you don't want anyone sitting there thinking, "Wow!  I sure wish this could happen to me!"  At its heart, this is a story about oppression, war, and revolution.  It's not supposed to incite  warm fuzzies.  That said, I'm not a real lover of violence, but I would have been OK with more graphic material in order to stay true to the terror of the story.  There were a few moments during The Hunger Games when I had to look away.  There are moments during The Lord of the Ring trilogy when I have to look away.  Nothing in this film made me feel that way, and my primary concern about that is that it is a scary thing to become desensitized and lulled to sleep in regard to the repulsive nature of the games.

And then, rounding out the "big three" in regard to moral content, is the issue of sexuality.  I was pretty worried about what they were going to do with Finnick's sugar cube scene and Johanna's tree costume.  Overall, I felt that these were handled tastefully, and although I'm not prepared to give an all clear for 13 year old boys to engage in this material (mine sure won't), I think it was less intense than I expected.  That may not be saying much.  We do see Johanna's bare back (from the waist up), hence my caution to parents of young boys.  Other than that, I thought the costuming was actually quite beautiful. 

And now, the actual content (and why I will never be satisfied with how this story plays out on the big screen unless they decide to release extended versions of the movies that are each 8 hours long)...

SPOILERS!  SPOILERS!  SPOILERS!

DO NOT READ BEYOND THIS POINT IF YOU DON'T WANT CONTENT!

I am just going to admit it, I liked the movie.  I did not love the movie, but I liked it.  I thought that the screenplay hit on most of the major points that I found to be essential to the story, and it was relatively true to the book.  I didn't think there was enough detail, but that's probably to be expected.  Books are almost always better than the film version.

Here's what disappointed me most.  I am going to try to be chronological.

The conversation between Katniss, Haymitch, and Peeta in district 11 is too sterile.  I read quite a few pieces about the need to make Peeta a stronger character in this film, and in my opinion, that was the place to do it.  He should be livid about the personal games that Katniss and Haymitch play with one another, behind his back.

Plutarch doesn't flash his Mockingjay watch and tell Katniss, "It starts at midnight?"  Really?

I didn't feel that nearly enough time was given to the months leading up to the quarter quell and the relationships between the characters.  I would have liked to have seen the whole scene from the book, between Gale and Katniss, at the little stone cottage deep in the woods.  I thought the scene where Katniss is out hunting and finds the fence electrified, causing her to jump from a tree back into the district, resulting in her injury, was essential.  Peeta's "always", while not left out, entirely, feels out of context.  As I write about this, it is becoming apparent that, for me, it's the small things that make up the whole.

Along the same lines, regarding character development, I felt that the other victors were seriously neglected.  At the very least, I felt that more attention needed to be paid to the reaping.  This is what makes them human.  Although I know she was little more than an extra, even in the book, I think it would have elicited pretty strong emotions, for example, to show Celia's reaping, with her children clinging to her as she is dragged off to the games.  I think the exchange between Seeder and Katniss, regarding the safety of Rue and Thresh's families would have added to the story.  Why not make it clear that Chaff is Haymitch's best friend?  These types of things would only have taken a few more seconds of screen time.
I thought the casting for Finnick was awful.  If somebody disagrees with me on this, please feel free to say so, but it just didn't work for me.  The scene where he's reviving Peeta was pretty sad, and then when Peeta is revived, Katniss is like, "Do you want to stand up?"  And then Peeta, who was essentially dead, is just healthy again?

And everything is too easy in the arena, not all that unlike last time.  The effects of the poisonous fog are too short lived.  These people are supposed to walk around with their skin falling off.  If you wanted comic relief, the joke that Katniss and Finnick play on Peeta would have done it.  Haymitch sends a note explaining the spile.  Finnick doesn't have to carry Peeta, and subsequently, Katniss doesn't have to carry Mags. 

 The parachutes of bread are conspicuously absent.

At this point, I have pretty much written off any hope for back-story on either the Mockingjay pin or Haymitch's games.  I'm going to hold to the opinion that this is a shame.

Still, there were definitely some exceptional moments.  As much as I didn't care for Finnck too much, there is something very convincing about his reaction as he is watching Katniss panic over Peeta's brush with death.  I also thought the scene with the spinning cornucopia was intense and that the connection between Johanna and Katniss, there, was an excellent addition to the story.  Effie's transformation is remarkable, and I love how we begin to see the shift in her worldview, creating the thought that anyone, even the most narcissistic, materialistic, unyielding person can learn to love and choose to change.  I also thought the theme of self sacrifice for the sake of others ran pretty deep in this film, paralleling the book.  And that's probably the number one attribute that makes this story worth telling... and re-telling...   

And so I find myself ready to sign off on this one, knowing that as soon as I hit "post", I will think of a dozen more details I wish I had included.  And next year, I'll do it all over again, and I really, truly hope that splitting Mockingjay into two movies is going to help with the development of the teachable moments and lasting truths that can be taken away from this narrative.

L.

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Catching Fire, Pre-review...



I'm trying, pretty desperately, to be concise.

For anyone who hasn't read my previous posts regarding The Hunger Games franchise, you might want to follow the links below to find out how this entertainment "purist" got mixed up in this whole thing, to begin with (spoiler alert):

 
But here's the thing.  At this point, I know that I am getting ready to subject myself to 2 hours and 26 minutes outside of my ordinary, entertainment based standards.  And the number one reason for this is that I have committed to following this theatrical story to its end and to offering what I hope to be a well rounded review of what's good, what's bad, and what's teachable.  

From things that I have picked up here and there, I am already a little more than concerned about how well this movie will follow the heart of the story.  I am also pretty sure that Catching Fire is going to push the moral standard even more than its predecessor, and I'm not too happy about that.  We'll see...
From a purely storyline point of view, here's what I'm looking for tonight:

Is the relationship between Katniss and Peeta more fully developed in this installment?  I am concerned about some things I have read about the "manning up" of Peeta, and I am having a difficult time determining how Katniss will come to trust the other victors if they're not bending over backwards to protect him. 

I'm still holding out for some explanation of the Mockingjay Pin and its origins.  At the very least, I would like to see a scene from Haymitch's games where Maysilee is wearing the pin as her district token... or something.  I don't think we're going to get a flashback, though, because I have yet to see anyone cast as a young Haymitch...  Again, I lament the thought that no room has been left for a prequel...     

I think that what they do with District 11 on the victory tour is essential to the story.  

Beyond that, I think I'll wait to pick it all apart until I've actually seen it. 

What I will say is this.  Having watched all three trailers, I am going to admit that I was riveted.  I'm not sure how many times I replayed them, but it borders on embarrassing.  Let's hope those scenes aren't the only things worth watching.

L.   

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

What Would You Do...

... for a granola bar?

Cody would do push ups,
clapping his hands behind his back between each one:

Kyle would eat Cody's foot...
Someone just give Kyle a granola bar!
For crying out loud, the kid is starving:

Seth would contort his body...
But I think he secretly likes doing that anyway:

Grace would do 100 Jumping Jacks...
But that's not all...
How about adding group jumping jacks
to corporate worship?

L.

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Why I Don't Take "Selfies"...

... of just myself.

I have been enjoying Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners the past couple of weeks.  Ordinarily, these things are sort of difficult for me, because I'm an introvert, and throwing me into a group of people I don't know, to share a meal, ranks right up there with shoving toothpicks under all of my toenails, as far as comfortability goes.  However, the last two such dinners I attended were really great!  The first one was incredible, because we actually sat in groups of 4-6 and switched seats after every course, which allowed me to meet a lot of people and to have some meaningful conversation.  This was much preferred to the group of 250 pastors and their spouses thrown into one huge, noisy banquet hall.  I cannot begin to express how impressed I was with our DS and his wife and how they opened their home and served us.  It was overwhelming in the best way possible, and I actually got to know some people who I will now consider friends!  The second dinner was a bit more of a standard, everyone around one table, type of deal, but it was still a relatively small group, and one of the couples we'd talked with at the first dinner was there, and Pastor Mike and Rachel were there, so it was a workable social situation for me, too!

Anyway, what does this have to do with "selfies"?  Here's the thing.  I legitimately like to dress up, but I don't always have occasion to do so.  As it turned out, I though I looked pretty good on both of those dinner nights, so I snapped some pics: 

Christmas Dinner 11/14:


Thanksgiving Dinner 11/19:

Well, apparently it is true that pride comes before the fall, because this must be how I looked, to Miah, who thought I needed to take a picture of her, too:


Never mind...

L.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Dear Fish...

... I have worked all day to keep you alive.

Please stay that way.

Seth and Grace are really trying to take care of you, but you are super stinky, even though they are following all the directions.  But we do kind of like it when you talk to us.  We might even get Phil to like you if you stick around long enough, although I doubt he'll ever believe that you are talking fish...
Quinton:
 Vivace:

L.

P.S.  After a day like today, I am only a little bit sorry that we ate fish sandwiches in front of you, for dinner...

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Miah Decided...

... that she needed to wash the dishes today.  Great...

L.

Monday, November 4, 2013

And the Girls' Rooms...

... are unpacked!

This was no easy task, and I'm struggling with lack of space, among other things, today.  I finally just shoved half of Grace's stuff into the garage.  She was pretty understanding.  I would imagine that had something to do with the fact that I had just moved her bed, from the garage, by myself.  For anyone who thought it wouldn't fit... it fits! 

I think I got pretty spoiled owning my dream house for the past six years.  Even though I know, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that God was preparing me for this very house (the closest house possible to the place where I felt compelled to come home), I am having a difficult time adjusting to renting, even "short term".  It's OK.  I'll get over it.  First world problems...

Grace's Room:


Miah's Room:


 L.

Saturday, November 2, 2013

November District Quiz...

It's always a good day when you're quizzing, but this one felt kind of unusual...

I think we're really learning something about the adjustment between district quizzes and invitationals and how it effects things, but that's probably a story for another day.

Today, our experienced team (Seth, Grace, and Kyle) placed 4th, and our novice team (Hannah, Abby, Josh, and Kelsay) placed 2nd.  In the experienced division, Grace was 2nd, Seth was 6th, and Kyle was 13th.  In the novice division, Hannah was 1st, Abby was 5th, and Josh got his first quiz out!  Seth and Grace will be representing the Michigan District at the St. Louis quiz next month, and Kyle is an alternate for those teams.  How about a couple of pics:

Durand Novice Team
Josh, Abby, Hannah, Kelsay:

Top 5 Experienced Individuals
Cassie, Grace, Mary, Dominic, and Katelyn:

Looking forward to K-Zoo, comin' up next!

L.

Friday, November 1, 2013

Slow Progress...

... is better than no progress at all!

At the moment, the boys' room and the kids' bathroom are both completely set up.  The rest of the house is basically functional, with varying degrees of mess!  If I can accomplish one room/day from here on out, then I will be happy... ha!  I feel a little like Larry the Cucumber...

The Boys' Room:





The Kids' Bathroom:



L.